just try to stop thinking about him and dont like talk to him on facebook or txt him or anything for a while! it helps trust me! it will just happen over time to you cant really forget someone overnight!!

no that’s not bad at all! you shouldn’t care about what people think! if its real for you guys then its real! its not about what anyone else thinks only you two and if you love each other after that long then you do and no one can tell you otherwise!! :)

well you should do it in person defiantly and maybe just be like ‘i need to talk to you..i dont think this is working between us because rahrah’ but say it nicely and stuff and see what happens from there!! maybe go somewhere but go somewhere you can almost leave after it has happened if you get me, like if you do it in the middle of lunch somewhere you can’t leave if it gets awkward!! haha im sure his bestfriend wont get mad because its not his fault that it didnt work out between you!xx

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maybe you should go visit a specialist and get some professional pointers on what to do and how to interact with people if you find it difficult. People aren’t going to hurt you at work and you should learn to talk with people because it really isn’t bad i promise!! im really sorry that your sister hurt you but once you learn to trust people it will get so much better! if you think you are depressed you should go see someone who can help you with that and then help you get through the tough times!! please please please don’t do anything you will regret because your life is so worth living and you should learn to cope!! please dont do anything though, think about your family and how they would feel everday thinking it was their own fault, living with the guilt that if they had done something different you might still be with them!! please think about others to:) we are always here to help!!xx

sorry its taken us so long to answer these i hope its not too late:) I think he might be hinting that he mayb have some feelings for you, but if you haven’t meet in person he might not be sure yet because he can’t tell. I think you should give it a try and maybe talk to him and ask if he likes anyone if you don’t want to say something like do you like me? but either is fine:)xx 

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he sounds lovely! only do what you are comfortable with because he sounds like he will wait until you are ready. If you have quite an open relationship just explain to him you arent ready yet but you will be in the future or something like that and im sure he will understand. This way he knows your mind set a bit more. Sure, doing other things will make some boys happy but others are happy to wait and your boyfriend sounds like he wont mind at all! Just dont do anything you arent comfortable with as this may lead to you doing more things you arent comfortable with and you wont be able to enjoy experiences unless you are completely ready, comfortable and willing. Hope this helps, we are here if you need more advice xxx

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you could possibly talk to them just you and them and tell them you are worried about the consequences of regular drug use, and if that doesnt work you could go to a school guidance person and she can have a talk to them or if you dont want them to get in trouble just dont mention their names! you could also mention to a teacher you think you should have a drug talk because you think some girls are using but dont mention names and maybe if there is a drug talk they will understand and stop using! :) im sure they wont be mad at you for trying to help them out!! and you seem like a lovely person!xx

hmm this is difficult! you could possibly get someone to talk to him and say something like ‘have you ever thought about going out with ___’ or something along those lines and see what his reaction is and what he says! that why you wont have to put your friendship in danger because he wont stop hanging out with you just because of that! You can try get him to like you by like flirting and being nice and not a bitch but mostly just being yourself and im sorry to say but there isn’t much you can do to get someone to like you if they dont! :) xx

hii, this sounds extremley cliche. But act yourself because wanting to act like someone else/different is a waste of the person you are. You two could still get along really well even though he is into some things you arent. This creates differences which can create better conversation at times and make you both seem interesting compared to both of you agreeing with everything. Just make sure he doesnt make you change your opinions on drugs and drinking. You two sound like you get along really well and maybe when you get to know him better he might only do those things for specific reasons. If you have spoken previously and gotten along really well theres no need to change the way you approach him because whatever your doing seems to be working. Im sure both of you can find things you both agree on/like doing as hobbies and you can eventually meet up and go to a movie or something. Hope this helps xxxx

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good on you for wanting to ask her out! for that you are a man. Dont worry whenever a guy asks a girl out they get a little shy and thats completely normal. You can ask her out it many different ways. You could take her out for a walk, write it to her in a letter but the main advice i will give you is ask her in person. This will make it seem a lot more real, more to heart and is a lot more romantic than a text/facebook chat. If you want more ideas of what to do such as more specific ideas eg. if you want to be at the movies or something whilst you do it get back to us and we will help you plan it more specifically to make it as special as possible :) xxx

hmm maybe when you are next chatting him or txting him you could just subtly say something like soo who are you skuxing atm or like soo who do you like and make it quite casual and see what he says then! or get one of your friends to talk to him and tell him you like him to and that he needs to make a move on asking you out or something:) or just be like so what are you doing tonight one night and if he says nothing be like oh wana do something? and do somethingjust the two of you and maybe something will happen!!xx